Before "I Do" Part II: Important Child-Related Discussions to Have Before the Wedding

Today’s post is the second in a three-party series about important discussions to have before you get married. The conversation topics and questions for today are all about kids. Children will change your life and it is wise to discuss the child-related topics below before you get married. These conversations will lead to a stronger relationship and marriage with your future spouse.
 

• Do you or your partner have children from prior relationships? How will their expenses be handled after your marriage?
• If you plan to have children together, what would your ideal childcare situation be? Do you want one parent to leave their career and stay home? Consider how this might impact your future financial arrangements. 
• Do you want to send your future children to public or private school? How will you fund private school if that is your choice?
• How do you and your future spouse feel about family traditions with your children?

​The answers to these conversation starters may lead you to decide you would like to have a Prenuptial Agreement in place or complete your estate planning. A Prenuptial Agreement can solidify your financial agreements regarding which funds and accounts remain separate property of each spouse after marriage and which will become marital property held jointly by the spouses. You may also want to consider executing a Will, Healthcare Power of Attorney, or Durable Power of Attorney to provide for your spouse or children from previous relationship, and to prepare for the worst-case scenario (just in case). Please reach out to our office so we can assist you. We are here to guide you on the legal aspects of your journey to marriage and beyond so you can focus on enjoying your new life. 

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